Planting Seeds of Peace

April 21, 2008 by Shalini Gidoomal 

Tom Oketch by Jerry RileyIn the last ten days of January, as the violence in the Rift Valley spread from Eldoret to Nakuru and then Naivasha, the nature of the aggression changed. From political, the rationale became personal – and as a result wildly out of control. By the beginning of February, as helicopters circled Naivasha, the outskirts of Nairobi were in flames. Thika rioted, and angry protesters besieged Limuru. Closer into town, Tom Oketch, walking to his home near Kibera from a long tough day struggling to implement peace initiatives with a blindly angry public could only watch when two people were lynched in front of him.

At this point, he nearly gave up. Eighteen hour days, seven days a week, full of talks, discussions, peace meetings; all of it seemed pointless as he watched the irrational murder taking place a few feet away, unable to help the victims or remove himself from the situation.

“I felt it was all futile,” explained Tom. “I knew I could spend hours in discussion with someone who promised to remain calm, but could and did turn to violence just as easily and irrationally the following day, his eyes and ears blind for the brief moments it took to snuff out another life, to loot or burn houses and businesses. I was watching it happen”

It was as if a madness had affected everyone and it was out of control, resulting in gruesome killings countrywide.

Fortunately Tom didn’t give up. The following day he attended the regular Peace forum organised by CCP, and reported on the grim state of affairs. He returned to the regular beat of peace meetings, and kept trudging, kept working.

Tom Oketch by Jerry RileyTom is a volunteer – both with the Lavie Foundation that came into being in 2000 when the Nubians clashed with Luos over rents in overcrowded Kibera, and of the Nairobi Peace Forum that drew together 33 groups during January 2008 in a bid to coordinate a cohesive strategy to cope with the post election violence across the slum areas of Nairobi.

A practiced peacemaker his experience at Lavie, made him wise to the signs of burgeoning unrest. Walking the mud-rutted tracks of Kibera before the election he saw more markers of dissent as tribes polarised -He heard tough talk at the regular Sunday meetings in Kamakunji on a Sunday where Luos would meet and discuss both politics and local affairs. The split began to form – Luo’s with ODM and Kikuyus with PNU. He knew a crisis was close at hand.

On the day of election tensions were running extremely high. Many Luo names were missing from the electoral register – including Raila’s. ECK chairman Kivuitu came to visit Kibera and told people they could vote even if their names were not on the register, and even without ID’s. This cooled the situation down a bit. Tom and fellow volunteers circulated at the meeting, targeting leaders, asking them to talk to the few people they could, urging them to keep peace. “This approach, with time has impact and prevents too much agitation,” he said.

But there was little Tom or any of the volunteers could do in the fretful uncertain days following the election. The violence surged up and around them. They went from Kibera, to Mathare persuading people to stay calm but tempers ran too high.

Tom Oketch by Jerry Riley“All we could do was inform police of what was happening,” said Tom “It wasn’t helpful because the police were so biased as well as liberal with the teargas and bullets.” They often called off planned actions – like in Toi market where a crowd threatened to burn them and they had to run from the meeting they were trying to set up. They couldn’t even go to places like Katwekera because of the militant way the Luos there held out and fought against anyone who tried to enter.

At about this time the Nairobi Youth Forum came into being. A conglomeration of organisation working in slum areas, it was formed to provide a comprehensive network of activity across all the poor urban settlements and it elected Tom as its representative.

Each day NYF responded to calls for help. “One time we had a gang stopping people at night and robbing everyone. They had taken over a road in Korogocho and forced all passers by to pay each time they entered or left. We were able to scatter them with the help of the provincial administration.”

As things began to calm down they held forums, mixing all tribes in often heated discussions, allowing people to air grievances. They did street talks – stopping at a cobblers or groups playing chess and engaging them in conversation “Everyone wants to talk politics,” he said “we would add to the debate by asking what sort of peace they were creating and reminding them of their role in the atmosphere of the place they lived. That sobered them up and often resulted in people reflecting on their role in the violence.”

Still he feels that their work – even though it consumed him night and day – is just a dribble in the sea of humanity squished into the densely populated parts of Kibera, Mathare and Kawangware where he works. “We might reach 100 people in a day – in a place where there are 800,000. It’s a long and slow process.”

Tom Oketch by Jerry RileyIt was often disheartening. Tom met many dishonest peacemakers, particularly pastors who would say one thing to him, and then incite violence from the pulpit with their followers.

“I learned that people can do anything,” he said “We are all very civil and then we turn into animals in a moment. It has been a revelation to me – anybody has that potential. I even saw clergy looting – carrying things away from burnt-out shops.”

Tom hasn’t flinched in telling truths, however painful. He is not the sort to use the expression “a certain community”

He reported on the partisanship of the Red Cross in distributing aid, and on how Martha Karua and Beth Mugo took food to Jamhuri IDP camp and insisted it be served only to Kikuyus. He’s taken umbrage with the violence perpetrated and organised in Kamakunji by the Luos.

In his regular updates at the CCP meetings Tom aims to represent the mood of the slums as accurately as he can.

“Most people living in these areas don’t live as they would have wished to. They can’t find work, can’t bring people to visit especially if they are from a more upmarket estate. So they get trapped in their villages getting drunk and angry. They do without food or health services, struggle with water and suffer many indignities.”

He spends much time currently trying to help with employment. He leapt at the opportunity to use 100’s of black plastic crates generously donated by a flower company to help small businesses start again using them in a variety of ways – for storage, carriage, and construction.

He spends much time correcting myths – “People don’t believe there aren’t jobs available and think that Kibaki is hoarding all the high and low paid for Kikuyus. Of course that creates enmity. Many people regard jobs in town in offices or factories as real work, while running a kiosk or a small business is considered temporary until a “proper” job can be found. We teach them to see their entrepreneurship as valid and important since they have created a job for themselves.”

Tom Oketch by Jerry RileyRight now he is actively searching for funding for small organisations who do strong grassroots work but don’t have the right legal set up to access established funding streams.

“Tom is so busy,” said a co-worker. “He has given so much time, energy to bringing about peace and harmony.”

“There won’t be papers written about me,” he said modestly, “but I know I contributing to helping this bad situation. “I wrote statements, made calls, walked the streets, and worked on conciliation. This is my passion. Right back to school and college I was the sort of person that challenged and questioned issues. I liked working with others and I liked dealing with social problems. This has been the biggest challenge of all, but if one person responds and lays down his panga, then I know I have helped clearing a way forward.”

Comments

6 Responses to “Planting Seeds of Peace”

  1. Andrea-Moraa on April 21st, 2008 9:12 pm

    Shalini, this is the first article since GK’s conception that takes me back to how we got here in the first place. It reminds me once again of that unnecceasry evil – ‘ukabila’. My thoughts cannot help but ponder over the vulnerability of the peace carved out from the ‘known’ and ‘unknown’ developments at ‘the house of peace’ at Serena. It is the unknown that worries me. Very brave to have mentioned names.

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  3. Keya on April 28th, 2008 6:36 am

    Thanks to Tom Oketch for not giving up on people of Kenya. It is hearts like his that will save the country. Be blessed.

    Also congratulations to those who launched Generation Kenya. We need a sober forum and responsible wealth of information which will be passed on to generations to come. These are the building stones that will stand.

  4. Dr Wilson Gitari on April 28th, 2008 12:24 pm

    Hi
    its amazing to know there is someone out there rational like Tom. In the year 97-2000 i used to crisscross Kibera from Ayany down to the Nairobi Dam without fear, i carried out my MSc research work there, sampling air to check for pollution, with my instrument moving aroung a mkokoteni, and all the people i worked with were all non-kikuyus, we used chat with them as i monitored my instrument but at no one time did the kikuyu, luo or luya identiy come into play, they would invite me for lunch in those mud wallwd houses and we shared what they had as kenyan brothers. today i am bit taken aback and shocked that i cannot go back and say hi to those brothers who helped me. what really went wrong over that shor span of time. what can be done to simmer the tensions and people to think and act soberly.

  5. Dr Wilson Gitari on April 28th, 2008 12:24 pm

    Hi
    its amazing to know there is someone out there rational like Tom. In the year 97-2000 i used to crisscross Kibera from Ayany down to the Nairobi Dam without fear, i carried out my MSc research work there, sampling air to check for pollution, with my instrument moving aroung a mkokoteni, and all the people i worked with were all non-kikuyus, we used chat with them as i monitored my instrument but at no one time did the kikuyu, luo or luya identiy come into play, they would invite me for lunch in those mud wallwd houses and we shared what they had as kenyan brothers. today i am bit taken aback and shocked that i cannot go back and say hi to those brothers who helped me. what really went wrong over that shor span of time. what can be done to simmer the tensions and people to think and act soberly.

  6. phoebe ndindi on April 4th, 2009 1:08 pm

    when one is building it takes alot of energy,time and mental input lets not forget the social encoragement, for the building to have the actual outlook of what the builder wants,but it will just take seconds to bring it all down to ashes.I think we have learnt the hard way.their is a sayin that a calf that the mother has died its the only one that leaks itself……i guess lessons dont just have to be in class you know……………………………………

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